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	<title>Comments on: The Real Better Half</title>
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	<description>I'm ALWAYS going the Wong way</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: consultant stratégie</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13487</link>
		<dc:creator>consultant stratégie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 19:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to say the real better half does exist. But it is not easy for everyone to find his/her real better half.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say the real better half does exist. But it is not easy for everyone to find his/her real better half.</p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Q</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13412</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms. Q</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 22:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I think I know exactly what you mean - I want to feel like I got totally lucky in a relationship. Not in any low-esteem way but just bowled away by the person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I think I know exactly what you mean - I want to feel like I got totally lucky in a relationship. Not in any low-esteem way but just bowled away by the person.</p>
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		<title>By: Derek</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13335</link>
		<dc:creator>Derek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 18:20:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I definitely enjoy random posts (that I write or read).  Of course, &lt;em&gt;most&lt;/em&gt; of mine are random since I don't actually have a directed focus on this blog!

That's true, each person in a relationship usually does have their good points.  But I guess that I always think that to the observer one of them comes out better.  That is, if there was a relationship with one person looking better and the other having a better personality, I'd probably say that the one with the better personality is the "better half".  I guess similarly I think about which person "won out" with the relationship.

Haha I think that I really want to find someone who can be my better half.  That is, I want to be the one who feels grateful and lucky to have found the person.  Maybe that's what everyone aims to be.  I wouldn't &lt;em&gt;mind&lt;/em&gt; if other people thought that I were the better half as long as I truly thought that the other person were the better half.  Seems like a bit of a cop-out answer, but it's the truth!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I definitely enjoy random posts (that I write or read).  Of course, <em>most</em> of mine are random since I don&#8217;t actually have a directed focus on this blog!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s true, each person in a relationship usually does have their good points.  But I guess that I always think that to the observer one of them comes out better.  That is, if there was a relationship with one person looking better and the other having a better personality, I&#8217;d probably say that the one with the better personality is the &#8220;better half&#8221;.  I guess similarly I think about which person &#8220;won out&#8221; with the relationship.</p>
<p>Haha I think that I really want to find someone who can be my better half.  That is, I want to be the one who feels grateful and lucky to have found the person.  Maybe that&#8217;s what everyone aims to be.  I wouldn&#8217;t <em>mind</em> if other people thought that I were the better half as long as I truly thought that the other person were the better half.  Seems like a bit of a cop-out answer, but it&#8217;s the truth!</p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Q</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13291</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms. Q</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 04:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes random posts are the best. You've seen a few of mine! Random posts are a great way to see what all else is going on in someone's head. I mean, we're not really all one track - that is, our blog "focus" is just that - maybe what we choose to share and not the whole of us. Not that can actually share that barring some Mind Meld.

Yes, I have seen couples where I thought one was a better catch in some form. However, usually they equal out between their various "catchier" areas. Like one is a better catch  based on looks but the other has a nicer personality. Things like that. "Better" is all relative though. Goes back to that old saying, "One man's meat is another man's poison."

But the big question your Readers Want To Know is if you think you're a catch and are you usually the Better Half :D ?? Hahaha!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes random posts are the best. You&#8217;ve seen a few of mine! Random posts are a great way to see what all else is going on in someone&#8217;s head. I mean, we&#8217;re not really all one track - that is, our blog &#8220;focus&#8221; is just that - maybe what we choose to share and not the whole of us. Not that can actually share that barring some Mind Meld.</p>
<p>Yes, I have seen couples where I thought one was a better catch in some form. However, usually they equal out between their various &#8220;catchier&#8221; areas. Like one is a better catch  based on looks but the other has a nicer personality. Things like that. &#8220;Better&#8221; is all relative though. Goes back to that old saying, &#8220;One man&#8217;s meat is another man&#8217;s poison.&#8221;</p>
<p>But the big question your Readers Want To Know is if you think you&#8217;re a catch and are you usually the Better Half <img src='http://www.goingthewongway.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> ?? Hahaha!!</p>
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		<title>By: Derek</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13284</link>
		<dc:creator>Derek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 02:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aren't all of my entries pretty random?  I take it that you don't agree with the post then?  Haha good idea, headaches are no fun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aren&#8217;t all of my entries pretty random?  I take it that you don&#8217;t agree with the post then?  Haha good idea, headaches are no fun.</p>
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		<title>By: tiff</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13281</link>
		<dc:creator>tiff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 00:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>random entry, derekson.  you're right, i don't like headaches.  so i won't think about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>random entry, derekson.  you&#8217;re right, i don&#8217;t like headaches.  so i won&#8217;t think about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Derek</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13259</link>
		<dc:creator>Derek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 16:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suppose that spouses are indeed people rather than things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suppose that spouses are indeed people rather than things.</p>
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		<title>By: jenshih</title>
		<link>http://www.goingthewongway.com/2008/05/07/the-real-better-half/#comment-13257</link>
		<dc:creator>jenshih</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 16:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hah! i totally agree. 

and you mean "who they are"? haha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hah! i totally agree. </p>
<p>and you mean &#8220;who they are&#8221;? haha</p>
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